Thursday, August 20, 2009

Driving Life

Sometimes going gets really tough and you start thinking whether you really belong to this place. You start feeling your limitations. Giving up the hope is always the last resort, but it is always the feeling of ' pushing a little bit and may be the solution is lying around the corner' that keeps you driving in the quest of life. It is always the human nature. He always tries to push it to his maximum limits, but sometimes this maximum may not be good enough.

It is just like a long distance race where one keeps going until he stops breathing. But, there are always some moments of testing through out the event. The race in incomplete only in two cases, either he feels tired for a moment and just gives up in that momentarily wave or he is completely finished. In the former case, there always remains a repentance of not holding on to that particular moment. It takes just a momentary disbelief in you abilities that lets you fail in your whole endeavour. And the ones who hold on to their belief till the very end, always end up on the laughing side. Win or loss does not really matter because it is always the satisfaction of hundred percent effort that makes you happy and stronger.


In life, the intensity may not be so high, but then the moments are also not so brief. I think that the direction and your conviction for that matter becomes much more important here. Sometimes these are only assumptions which lead our deeds. These assumptions may be right or wrong. You can get to the final destination following your assumptions, but once, you are stuck somewhere, it is very difficult to drive yourself unless you are convinced about your goal.

So, I would say that it is always good to find out the answers to these three questions, Why, How and How much, before setting out for any endeavor. The first one is the most important one because human beings are always motivated by the goal and if the purpose behind that is clear, one can always find the required driving force to get there. The remaining two questions are about training and you needs. Once the goal is clear, one can always find out the ways and if the needs are defined, one can always draw a line to your limitations.